I was having lunch with 2 secondary school friends whom i have known for 12 years. Guy A & B i shall name them . Guy A will be getting married at the end of this year. I of cos send my condolences. Oops i meant congratulations. . Its has always been a mind f$%^%& torture to know that my friends are all slowly but surely getting hitched up and ready for the long and definently not smooth road ahead.... I always have negative thoughts about marriage. I cant imagine myself in the scenario. When i told A & B that , they told me its because i havent found that someone special yet. But deep down i know that is not the truth. I asked A how he knows that he is ready , or rather how can he be sure to take the plunge. He just somemore told me " YOU JUST KNOW IT ". I was like ?........Huh just know it ? U mean u just wake up one day and then his brain was suddenly programmed to tune the marriage path ?

7 Reasons why many people are not ready for marriage .

1) U have to be really faithful to yr life partner
2) U only can only one sex partner only after marriage.
3) U have to share your hard earned money with her.
4) U have to ask for permission if u want to go out with your friends for drinks
5) U have to spend all your free time with her and children / dogs if u happen to have one.
6) U have to entertain her family members / relatives
7) U are afraid that she might not turn out to be the sweet little angel she used to be.

Why 7 ? Why not 10... Basically that is all the information i have gathered.